Love and Marriage
Marriage should be based on love among many other factors and principles, but not all love results in marriage. This is because love is not always an end result and some people confuse love and marriage in the process. There are a lot of things that you have to consider with love and marriage and there should be no confusion between the two. Each is a separate entity that needs to be nourished and cultivated within itself. However, love should always be the basis of marriage.
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Love and marriage, it is said that most people find these two things in their search in a relationship, love or marriage. But that is not always the case. Seldomly, people find both, but if you listen to some people they will tell you that they have found love or marriage, but not both. I found that to be a little odd, but in today’s society, odd can appear normal.
Love and marriage, can bring much happiness in a person’s life, or it can bring sadness depending upon the circumstances. In life, love and marriage is not synonymous and it is not the same in meaning or definition. Yet, there is a major emphasis placed on both by many people. Daughters are taught by their mothers to grow up, fall in love and get married. As if to suggest that’s the only source of happiness. I believe that this type of socialization has contributed to many unhappily married couple’s. Love and marriage shouldn’t be the only two things you seek in a healthy relationship. A healthy relationship entails, trust, honesty, commitment and effective communication. Although, this is a dual process between the two, sometimes one will have to compensate for the other. When one is not able to give 50%, 60%, 70%……, the other will have to compensate for what’s lacking in making up the 100%. There are a lot of reasons why you should be happy and it should not be within the confines of love and marriage only. Enjoy life on life terms. Work on becoming a better you.
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The key to being happy is to find happiness in whatever this life has to offer you. Do whatever makes you happy. Do what makes you feel good. Don’t let anyone or anything place a limitation on what you can or cannot do. You only have one life to live and this is not a practice run. If you are limiting your happiness to love and marriage, then how can you find happiness with other things? Please don’t misinterpret what i’m saying, i’m not saying that love and marriage is not important because it does matter to a lot of people and that includes me. However, not all people will experience love and marriage and i don’t want them to think that just because they haven’t been successful in that area of their life that they cannot be happy and fulfilled in other areas of their lives.
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You have to work on you and what makes you happy and fulfilled before you can freely give of yourself to another. Your emotional needs define the finer points in your relationships. You have to ask yourself, am I a needy person? How do I propose to satisfy those needs? Do I try to find someone to meet those emotional needs for me? Once you identify and define yourself you’ll have a better understanding of what you need to do in terms of being content within yourself without any validation from others. Once you establish this you will be able to give of yourself freely without any reservations. You won’t look for love from someone else to validate you because you will have love and trust within yourself. I strongly believe that the emotional aspect must be fully satisfied within you first and foremost so that you are stable and ready before you engage in a relationship. You should not be looking for someone else to complete and fulfill those needs for you. You should know how and in what ways you can be happy and content within yourself.
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